That phase you need to overcome

23:01 rafi 3 Comments

No matter who you are, Introvert or Extrovert, constraint, haven't had any courage at all. There is a time when you need to stand up, stop justifying yourself, as you used to be. I know its hard to introduce yourself in front of people, I know it's hard to speak in front of awesome persons. You scared they would look down to you, and you're not worthy enough to stand up right over there.

But no,

It's just you overthinking, it's just you justifying yourself that can't do it, and you know what, unfortunately, you know how something works until it's done. This is how our world works, honey :)

I remembered, as an Introvert, Charlie hard to find any friends, if there's any, it's only one, and ...... his friend shot himself :") But then, there's a time, when he tried to fit in, try to introduce himself to Patrick, forget and leave his shy character behind, and ..... you know what happened? He found best friends for the rest of his life.

The result is unexpected, he's not only get Patrick, but also Sam, and got accepted as Wallflower.

The concept is pretty simple, no matter how fucked up your life, no matter how shy you are right now, and no matter how confidence your friends, that's already exchanged abroad, already being speakers nationally even Internationally, etc. Yups, formerly, they been like you, they been shy, they been discouraged because they think they can't. And they prove it wrong, they just took one step forward, leave everything behind, and TRY.

What next? Believe me, you won't never be the same anymore, because one of phase has been passed, and you take granted from it.

Hope it helped and good luck trying it, guys!