Day 1 in Medan would be about HER
Merliana Jasri Sipayung
One of my besties so far, been being best friend with her for 8 years from now. We have this one group called Genk-Gong, whenever we have this "Geng" period during the time.
As I also knew, those "friendship" that has been through for more than 7 years, most likely would last forever. And looking forward to do that!
Our quality time begun with ..... creating our e-KTP together. Haha. Just like me, she hasn't recorded her biological identity for e-KTP at all. In fact, quite confusing since she's only 1km away from Camat office. Oh yeah, she even recorded this, just because her old KTP been lost. Period.
Yups, during this time, we used to create a quality conversation. Mostly about our current life, also about why she could lose her iphone, also what kind of activities she used to have so far. Well well, when I was junior high school, merli was one of top 3 students loh. I mean, she's extremely ambitious to change her family's life, economically. Go girl! Show your "Boru Panggoaran" power !!!! She's one of several person that shaped the best of me also. And makes me have different "way of thinking" compared with my siblings tbh. I changed, I am more grateful than ever before, since I was being friend with her. We're not only talking about "Strong" girl loh, but also talking this "full-empathize" girl to her surroundings. She used to have several personal mission for changing North Sumatera in the future, especially changing the way of thinking youth, for not being corrupt, colluse, and nepotism - which one of main North Sumatera's problem-.
Well, after recording our e-KTP. Guess what? My ID Card can be taken on MARCH 2018! THAT'S 3 MONTH FROM NOW LOH. Goddamn it government, the reason always about Blanko !
So basically I need another way kan .... which is having some kind of resi or "proof" that's currently my ID Card in the middle of process. You know what ..... I need to go to Pakam (about > 10 km from here) to get the fucking proof.
Or, get some help from the "birocrazy", pay them several tenth K, and keep my hands clean
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Me, asked my parent about it, and it's something "OK" for him tho. And take the option since I have limited time :"( My integrity somehow had lost hiks
Then, Merli, with her intuition, didn't want to do it at all because her "Heart" feeling "it's not right". What a pure and lovely girl bgt ga si </3. Although, she's literally need this because she needs the old number from her Iphone ..... She keep her integrity, and get her hands dirty :") Just go girl !
Time passed.
I forgot my phone, but we keep going. We have a lunch in KFC. Get some chicken, and eat. She ordered "Choco Chick" which I literally don't recommend to you at all.
We continue our conversation about Economy, Management, Finance, etc (What the hell ga si), but this is something cool to share since her background in Economy is extremely ok, while me still learning Business Strategy and MBA from cheap online course in Udemy. It's legit as fuck.
And then .... We're also talking about our family, which talking about our little brothers that's hard to control, egois, ego-centric, no clear vision through their life, even didn't want to study unless been seeing or told cqcqcqcq
"Kok it's easier to be someone's mentored yah rather than our family. I mean, my mentee sometimes called me for 2 hours and talk about anything to get some life's hack or solution. But for our brothers? Cqcqcq can't say anything at all lah"
"OMG RT AF Mer. Literally feel the same lah, I used to be mentee for several of my junior, and could maintain their academic record even being one of most outstanding also in our faculty sih. But it's really hard to encourage our brother yaps"
Huft, conversation's quality keep increased, and it's 4 hours already loh ! Time and space should tear us apart, she should go to Pakam for getting her ID Card's resi, and me ..... need to achieve several things before returning to Jakarta.
D1 is rock! Can't wait to D2 -which is probably would be my me time exploring Medan- and D3 which is probably about little reunion to my friends from HOMPIMPA!
Hiks, unfortunately I didn't get any moment to be captured lah, since I forgot to bring my phone back then. But thanks to that, we could bring quality conversation to the table, right?
Ganbatte !
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