Let's stop judging someone, guys!

00:15 rafi 2 Comments

Hello!

So tonight I would share my thought about Judging someone.
Well, as a human, Judging someone has been part of our life. Every time we saw someone did something, whether it makes us Happy or not, we tend to judge him by what they have done. The worst thing is, sometimes we judge people just because their appearance. And I have felt how it feels, even I have judged someone also loh!

What would be my point is ..... Let's start minimizing this kind of things. Just stop judging someone already. Whatever it is, it'll never be that simple. It'll never be as simple as we thought.

Let me give you some example. Whenever someone plain stupid, I mean, somehow it's hard for them to understand things or accepting what have been thought in class. Well, it's not always they're not trying harder, or not learning at all, because as you know, everyone has their own IQ, which is relating with someone's logic. Perhaps, he/she's not really into with mathematical term, but extraordinary with the art.

Whenever you judge someone, if it's bad, you'll have less respect with them, right? And somehow, it could affect your relationship with them. So, instead of judging them that they're not working enough, why don't we try to help them instead? Be a teacher, both of you would have the advantages. She/he could understand what they confused, and you, could learn your communication skills, even learning the matter twice, which would assure you remember that in the future. Win win solution, right?
Next. Since judging someone could affect your respect level toward each other, somehow it could affect you about the value of a person. Let say, because of this person "Gay", you won't believe anything that come from his/her mouth. That's it, it's just done for you. Although, the matters had nothing to do with sexual orientation or gender. What we don't know and might miss, some valuable ideas in the future, which is probably brilliant if we could follow this up.

Next. Have you ever judged someone that you didn't know? Just heard the rumors, or even seeing based on their appearance? I have. And it sucks! I remembered one video that could change your perspective about a "Gift". This commercial were about the passenger, that bought some Donuts. Sitting in waiting room. While he's sitting, he saw this man, that look like homeless person. This person took some Donuts from the plastic, that this man were thinking it's his! And then, they keep eating, till the end, after the announcement, this "homeless" look alike man ready to go, and took last donuts. Instead of taking last donuts, this man slice it half, and give it to the man.

Ok

And then, he get called from the announcement about his flight, take his Jacket, and his donuts right over there! Yups, this man was literally eating that man's donuts, and the "homeless" man taught him a lesson, about gift.

I obviously moved with that, and once again, judging someone isn't really a good thing in the first place.

The list keep going down. Judging someone based on their race, religion belief, etc, won't make you "more" human instead of him, or would lift your value higher than him. This concept could be danger, and would separate us in the future. And believe it's happening not only in Indonesia, but also in every country. Regionally, Nationally, or even Internationally. If only someone stop judging each other that "I am right instead of them" etc, I believe this world would be a better place to live in. Period.